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Beyond swiping on girlfriend's apps for fun when we're out to drinks, I have very little personal expertise when it comes to online dating, but I know countless couples who met online, like our Marketing Manager Kelly and her boyfriend Alfie. I asked her to share her tips for writing a profile, below—enjoy! I started online dating in Back then, online dating was relatively new for twenty-somethings: Tinder had just been released, Bumble and Hinge were still a few years away, and most online dating was still done via a website, like Match.
I ed the ranks of photos and profiles because, at the time, it felt like my only option. I was years-old and had recently moved from Denver to L. It was a huge risk that left me very lonely for the next three years; trying desperately to make friends, do well at work, and date some nice guys, all while feeling the financial pressure that many people in their early twenties know all too well. When Alfie and I met last December on the app Hinge I was 28 and he was 32 , we'd both been online dating for years, but couldn't find that one person we wanted to build a lasting relationship with—until we landed on each other's profiles.
As soon as I saw his profile, I immediately knew we would get along, and later learned he felt the same way when he saw mine funnily enough, our first date was terrible, but our second was magical—but that may be a story for another post I wanted to find a real match, not a casual fling, and in the early days, I mostly used OkCupid to write novels about myself online, trying desperately to pack my entire personality into an eight-paragraph, pre-determined questionnaire.
Using Bumble, Hinge, Match, and OkCupid as my apps of choice, I finally found my match by selecting my photos much more carefully, keeping it short and sweet, being honest with myself, and saying yes to first dates more often 17 in a three-month period. Over the years, I noticed that many of my friends and dates shared a common sentiment when it came to the profile photos of people they had gone on dates with—they looked really different in person than they did online. A selfie that appeared on my earlier profiles to be clear: this photo did not attract the right kind of person The profile photo the one that shows up first I had when I met Alfie.
DO use accurate pictures of yourself based on what you look like today. Use photos of what you actually look like, and ask your friends for their opinion if you need help. DO show a variety of photos. Use at least one full-body photo preferably standing , one close-up of your face preferably not a selfie… , one with your friends, and one doing an activity you love. These photos are absolutely essential, and for the rest, use photos that give little hints about who you are and what you like to do.
Yes, please!! And yes, we now spend a lot of time at the brewery where the picture was taken, and he does genuinely love and want kids, so points for accuracy! DO smile!! And guess what? Alfie and I live 1. These are the things I wrote about in my profile i. I saved the more serious stuff for our first handful of dates, once we'd met in person.
DO have fun with it. DO keep it light. Save the really important stuff for a little later. Online dating can work for anyone. Among all the emojis I listed, Alfie spotted the soccer ball and was instantly intrigued, as he also played soccer growing up. Our third and fourth dates both involved soccer, and I think we both agree that these dates ending up being what sealed the deal for both of us. Looking at it from another angle, I had also included the calendar emoji to subtly communicate that I am not, in fact, a very spontaneous person.
Being honest with myself about who I am was key to finding the right fit. DO ask your friends for help. What do your friends love the most about you? How would they describe you? DO use humor, if that makes sense for you. These words may include: spontaneous, funny, passionate, active, sweet, fun, outgoing, etc. When I told him I was writing this article, Alfie said that the one thing I did that made me really stand out to him was messaging him first.
DO send a message first! My good friend Megan, who just married someone she met on OkCupid, also messaged her husband first. Get in there! Embrace it! How our marketing manager is prioritizing her health and her dog. Like having a supportive group of friends at your fingertips. Bigger Bites. Monthly Beauty Buys. At Home. Paper Goods. Five Things. Ask Emily. LInks I Love. Crave or Save. Personal Posts. Weekday Wardrobe. Products purchased through this post may earn us a commission. Submit Feedback. You May Also Like.
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